“Here's my philosophy on dating. It's important to have somebody that can make you laugh, somebody you can trust, and somebody that, y'know, turns you on... And it's really, really important that these three people don't know each other.”
By the way that phrase was taken from One Tree Hill, this awesome show I used to watch and of course this cheerleader who loved to hook up said it. I just thought it was funny so trust me when I say that is NOT my philosophy on dating...keep on reading and you find out about my philosophy ;)
Finally we reach the topic of love. Well this will be fun. Over the years I have seen relationships come and go. Sometimes relationships are pretty, some can be ugly. Depends on the couple I guess. Many people have come up to me to try and hook them up with friends, and sometimes it actually worked out.
Don’t just date because you are the only single person in your group of friends. That’s being desperate and afraid of what others might say. An ex friend of mine dated my friend because out of all of us he was the only one who had never kissed a girl. He was so desperate than he turned dating into a competition with all of us. I was dating my ex at the time, and everything I did with her he tried to do it better. Don’t let be people like that be around you because love is something magical, its not a competition.
I try to help relationships even though mine of 1 year and 4 months didn't work out quite well because of distance issues. But being there for a friend when he or she is dating is essential. They will eventually go through tough times and they will need someone to talk to. The fun stages of dating is when you or your friend is starting to like a person and you just go on and on about what you like about him or her. And finally when you and your special someone are together you text and call all the time, you go out. And the best part is not showing of yourselves to everyone, that's not important. What's important is that you realize how special that person can make you feel when nobody else can. How much love you can give to someone knowing that they will return that same love to you and more. To wake up each day and see that person and realize that you are going to be together and have a happy life.
You will soon find that special someone. It could be today, tomorrow, next month, maybe even a couple years from now. Don't search for love because then you will try and try with different people and maybe get your heart broken too many times. Meet someone and find out what is it that makes them smile, that makes them laugh, and that makes them cry. That is dating. Its important that you find someone who makes you laugh and makes you smile but most of all makes you feel alive and loved.
Be the person they hope to love. Love isn't a game. It’s a serious issue. Breaking a person’s heart is tragic. I see each day people playing around and hooking up and maybe to one of them its just all fun and hormones but for the other it turns out to be more than that. That's when people get hurt. Treat others with respect, and don't hook up with people you know others care about just out of spite and vengeance cause it shows everyone who you truly are.
So be that special someone. There is a person looking for you this very moment. So find them because they need you as much as you. Be brave, be bold, be spontaneous, be kind, be funny, be loving, be a friend, be special, be emotional, be yourself, and find love.
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